Facebook Friends Forever

The first time I saw Facebook on the computer screen there was a picture of my sister-in-law getting her breast tattooed. My daughter was trying to show me what it was all about, but that was enough to put anyone off.

Christmas 2018 was my ninth anniversary of being on Facebook, I don’t recall agreeing, but one second we were upstairs on the computer, my daughter typing away my personal details, the next second there was a Facebook friend request from daughter-in-law downstairs. Five seconds later there was a friend request from that ghastly child in my daughter’s class; in her class from playgroup onwards through all the long years of school…

‘Why on earth does she want to be my friend?’

‘DON’T accept, she asks to be everybody’s friend as she hasn’t got any real friends.’

Love it, hate it or are you a shadow, watching what others are doing without ever appearing? Authors are exhorted to have a presence on line and a Facebook  Author Page, and it was a good meeting place at the start, joining writers’ forums etc.

https://www.facebook.com/Beachwriter/

Most of us probably use it to see what everyone else in the family is up to and it is amazing to have messenger groups for family and friends and exchange pictures and news across the world in seconds.

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It took me a while to figure out how to post pictures that I had taken with my camera and loaded onto my desk top computer; I was filled with awe seeing people tap mysteriously on their mobile phones and put pictures straight on Facebook. When I finally acquired a smart phone I immediately became addicted to keeping people up to date with scenic views or strange sights.

What are some of the other things we can do on Facebook? Know how late everyone else is staying up or how early your FB friends in Australia get up. You might be discovered by a long lost relative and wish you hadn’t. See lots and lots of pandas and even more cats. Sign many petitions to save the world, see lots of the world and plenty of places you will never see; but in return smugly post pictures of places they will never visit. Join your local community group and start a conversation that could go on for days  ‘I went in that new restaurant and waited an hour for my dinner and the staff were very rude’.27835424_1971591706203943_476442722_oPress LIKE when you see a funny cartoon and lots more funny cartoons will pop up. If they make me LaughOutLoud I share them; there are plenty of people out there who can’t sleep or are stuck at home ill and love something to cheer them up. Cartoonists can say in a few pen strokes more than writers can in a page, so thank you cartoonists.

Time waster? What is the most inane thing you have found yourself glued to? Press LIKE when you see a news item posted by your friend in the USA and a few nights later you may find yourself watching a car chase filmed by a news helicopter. Keep watching, marvelling at the freeways ten lanes wide, keep watching to see if the police will catch up with the driver. Call out to anybody else in the house to come and have a look, but they have already gone to bed. You promise yourself to watch for two more minutes only before you go and clean your teeth, but those freeways and endless bridges are mesmerising and still the police are keeping up but not catching… like Facebook it goes on forever.

 

 

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11 thoughts on “Facebook Friends Forever

  1. I have Facebook and used it a lot when I first signed up my senior year of high school. Now I barely use it because I don’t prefer to read about people’s drama of their lives or read a play by play of their day. It is a good instrument to help make connections, but I think it can be wasteful of time.

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  2. I almost, almost canceled my FB account yesterday! I had the farewell post prepared, and then I chickened out. It’s such a time gobbler for me and I don’t have the time. Then I feel guilty about not attending to it and ignoring everyone. Sigh. I’m so glad it works for you and that you enjoy it. I wish I could manage it better.

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  3. I went for a month’s holiday in September and realized that I didn’t miss Facebook at all. When I returned I posted a farewell message and deleted my account. I have not regretted it so far. It was something that brought my attention to aspects of life that I know I will miss, like newspaper articles and the like, but I don’t miss the postings of cute kittens and missing dogs. Anyone who knows me will have my email address and if there is any event or happening of which I should be made aware, I’m certain they will inform me. I felt at times slightly anxious that I would be missing things but I also felt a certain tension about reading of the world’s injustices and cruelty.
    Do I miss Facebook? Not a jot!

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